Everything that you have is nothing and this nothing is called free will.
The only positive thing you can do is
To make this nothing available,
Thus enabling the loved one
To freely occupy a place by your side, the one that is the best, most natural for him.
However, if you defend your nothing and enforce it,
Then you annul and lose yourself,
While fencing in from the one possible reality.
Persisting in confirming your free will and your own choice is a path
On which you utterly lose yourself.